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blogger, comparison, depression, fulfilment, give up, Happy, joy, mental suicide, nowhere, satisfaction, weird, writer
I am struggling to write at the moment, it’s been full of starts and stops, which is highly frustrating. Why? A lack of satisfaction or fulfilment maybe? I’m still figuring that out. If you are a writer or blogger of any kind I am sure you can relate.
I’m in a very weird place, sometimes I’m happy well at least I think so, and at other times, I’m melancholy. I’m assuming the latter (well hoping it is) is just a fleeting thing that will soon pass.
I am sharing this firstly for myself, its kind of like admitting that there is a problem and secondly for anyone else who might be feeling a bit lost.
My game plan for this right now is focusing my energy on the things I want to change and be better. So that would include spending more time looking at what I don’t like and the habits that created it and changing them. Being around more positive people, things, watching inspirational videos, reading books and changing my environment i.e. going to the places that make me feel better or that create good experiences for me.
One of the things I would implore you NOT to do under any circumstance is the below.
Compare
Comparison is the thief of joy.
Please
Don’t
Do
It
Comparing your life to someone else’s is mental suicide, it never ends well once you embark on that journey. Instead of focusing the energy on them and all the things that are missing from your life, channel that energy to improving the state of yours. It’s a much better use of your time and resources.
Words that I am currently doing my best to live by.
And lastly do not to give up.
lipstickandblackcoffee 
You will get there hun. One step a a time, One day at a time. With each new day the sun rises.
I’ve lived in that spot of sadness, depression, there were days when i didn’t even want to get out of my bed. Now I thank God because I have found a way to be happy, it’s not that my outwardly circumstances have changed drastically. It’s more that I have found away to love my self and find that true happiness from within. It’s only when you can be thankful in the life you have just as you, that you find true happiness and then bit by bit your life begins to transform. Trust in yourself, you are a beautiful women with amazing writing skills that encourage anyone who reads. It’s important to share our truth because it not only sets us free but also helps others along the way. Follow your heart, and keep your mind clear. Focus on the positive and set in place set routines to help develop healthy habits.
Look forward to your future posts.
Charday xx
Thank you so much Charday for your kind, positive and encouraging words! I appreciate you taking out the time to give of yourself and share. I will definitely take on board your comments and see how it goes…thanks again and have a great week X